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bazkie, ministry of gendersoupIt's so weird, every match I got on dating apps over the past few years can only talk about themselves, and rarely seem interested in me! It's endemic! I don't remember it being like this at all when I was young (~25-20 years ago)!I wonder.. - maybe people become more self centered as they age? - maybe it's a cultural thing because we became more individualist? - maybe the self centered people stay single because nobody likes them? 🤣 - maybe it's always been like this but I just never noticed when I was younger?I'd like to hear other people who did online dating ~20 years ago if they have insights on this; is it just me, or is this really a thing?<a href="https://beige.party/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Dating</a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/OnlineDating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#OnlineDating</a>

Girl on the NetGimme your <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> insight, men who date women: on an app, if you’d messaged a cool lady, how long could she leave it before replying? What’s an acceptable length of time (if she explains in her message she’s been busy)?

The New Oil<a href="https://mastodon.thenewoil.org/tags/Kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Kink</a> and <a href="https://mastodon.thenewoil.org/tags/LGBT" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LGBT</a> <a href="https://mastodon.thenewoil.org/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> apps exposed 1.5m private user images online<a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c05m5m5v327o" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c05m5m5v327o</a><a href="https://mastodon.thenewoil.org/tags/privacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#privacy</a> <a href="https://mastodon.thenewoil.org/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nsfw</a>

Girl on the NetConnecting with people shouldn’t feel like a battle. The problem with straight <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a>... Art by <a href="https://mastodon.social/@stuart_cb" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@stuart_cb</a> ❤️<a href="https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/i-volunteer-as-tribute-the-problem-with-straight-dating/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/i-volunteer-as-tribute-the-problem-with-straight-dating/</a> I deleted the first draft of this blog and rewrote the whole thing this afternoon. *That* is how keen I am to build bridges rather than chuck rocks. Sorry if it's a bit clumsy, but I hope you get what I'm trying to say.

ABY BUT IN ALLCAPSNon-monogamous as happy in their love lives as traditional couples – studyResearchers say findings ‘challenge myth’ about monogamy while also showing no significant gap in sexual satisfaction<a href="https://aus.social/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationship</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/NonMonogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#NonMonogamy</a><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/mar/26/non-monogamous-people-relationships-couple-sexual-satisfaction-study?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/mar/26/non-monogamous-people-relationships-couple-sexual-satisfaction-study?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other</a>

ABY BUT IN ALLCAPSI run a local singles group on Facebook and have been posting "conversation prompts" every few days to get people chatting.This is how that's going...<a href="https://aus.social/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationship</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Facebook" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Facebook</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/FacebookGroups" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#FacebookGroups</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/RegionalAustralia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#RegionalAustralia</a>

ABY BUT IN ALLCAPSHim: I'm in security. I'm a consultant. Me: OK, well I don't play with anyone who is a cop or works cop-adjacent, like in security companies. Him: Umm well actually it's finance security. I'm not a security guard___ 1. You said security, my guy. 2. That's not really any better. 3. Still not interested.<a href="https://aus.social/tags/kink" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#kink</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#bdsm</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Ds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Ds</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/Dominant" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Dominant</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/submissive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#submissive</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/fetlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fetlife</a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a>

Alex@rtnVFRmedia Suffolk UKA really bizzare <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/crime" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#crime</a> - and maybe something that would have been better dealt with by a <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/hospital" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#hospital</a> order than a short <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/prison" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#prison</a> sentence (and a strong warning not to trust anything mentioned on online <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> sites, everything about this lass was a lie, but she clearly seems to be mentally unwell to go to all this effort of deception)<a href="https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/mar/19/staffordshire-woman-jailed-for-twice-tricking-partner-into-believing-she-was-pregnant" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/mar/19/staffordshire-woman-jailed-for-twice-tricking-partner-into-believing-she-was-pregnant</a>

Unseen Japan“[Japanese men] always tell me it’s so cool that they’re with a foreigner or that I speak English,” Kane says. “A lot of times you meet people and they say let’s go to a hotel, let’s go have fun. They say western women have a reputation for being easy.” <a href="https://unseen-japan.com/gaijin-hunter-fact-vs-fiction/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://unseen-japan.com/gaijin-hunter-fact-vs-fiction/</a> <a href="https://mstdn.jp/tags/japan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#japan</a> <a href="https://mstdn.jp/tags/unseenjapan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#unseenjapan</a> <a href="https://mstdn.jp/tags/ujwebsite" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ujwebsite</a> <a href="https://mstdn.jp/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://mstdn.jp/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a>

madame poolhairIt's official, I hate <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a>, ... I went on my last and final date ever today. Don't get me wrong, the guy was really kind, cute and interesting, but I walked home thinking ' I can't do this again', because it feels too much like a job interview, (bleh) I don't want the creation of my interpersonal relationships to feel like this, (unless it's for an actual job)... You know what? just be my friend, the quickest way to my heart is through <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/friendship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#friendship</a>, and if it becomes more, cool, if not , also cool. 😎

Girl on the NetRed-hot <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> advice from my Mum which I might actually start using... "Maybe you should only ever agree to a second date after you've asked the man if he can tell you 3 things he's learnt about you during the evening."❤️

Girl on the NetSome of you have been eagerly awaiting part 2 of my test date with Jack. HERE IT IS!The conclusion: love yourself before you start <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a>. You'll know you're ready to <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/date" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#date</a> when you can accept rejection with a shrug and 'your loss!'. (pls share if you like it!)<a href="https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/love-yourself-test-date-2/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/love-yourself-test-date-2/</a>

pelle ✅<a href="https://radikal.social/tags/DR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#DR</a> har "dating app for køer" på forsiden!?<a href="https://www.dr.dk/nyheder/indland/moomatch-dating-app-matcher-koeer" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.dr.dk/nyheder/indland/moomatch-dating-app-matcher-koeer</a>er det "dating," når man uden samtykke får en elektrisk dildo presset op i røven til man ejakulerer? det er dét de gør ved tyrene på "sædtapning."er det "dating," når man bliver spændt fast i en bøjle (en "rape rack") og får stukket en arm albuedybt op bagi, igen uden samtykke, og bliver insemineret med den tappede sæd?<a href="https://radikal.social/tags/DR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#DR</a> normaliserer sexuelle overgreb. <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/voldt%C3%A6gt" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#voldtægt</a> er ikke <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a>.<a href="https://radikal.social/tags/govegan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#govegan</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/m%C3%A6lk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#mælk</a>

Robert KingettYAY! Someone said their library bought Pass the Salt! <a href="https://share.libbyapp.com/title/10584475" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://share.libbyapp.com/title/10584475</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Books</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/EBooks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EBooks</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/EBook" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EBook</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Library" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Library</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Libraries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Libraries</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Gay</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Dating</a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Disability</a> <a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/bookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@bookstodon</a> <a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/reading" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@reading</a>

PrivacyDigestFirst <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Porn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Porn</a> , Now <a href="https://mas.to/tags/SkinCream" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SkinCream</a> ? ‘Age Verification’ Bills Are Out of Control What started as a misguided attempt to protect minors from "explicit" content online has spiraled into a tangled mess of privacy-invasive <a href="https://mas.to/tags/surveillance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#surveillance</a> schemes affecting <a href="https://mas.to/tags/skincare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#skincare</a> products, <a href="https://mas.to/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> apps, and even diet pills, threatening everyone’s right to <a href="https://mas.to/tags/privacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#privacy</a>. <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ageverification" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ageverification</a><a href="https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2025/03/first-porn-now-skin-cream-age-verification-bills-are-out-control" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2025/03/first-porn-now-skin-cream-age-verification-bills-are-out-control</a>

bazkie, ministry of gendersoupI'm feeling increasingly out of place on dating sites, these profiles are like "I'm a super adventurous person, very ambitious and always smiling! Never a dull moment! Who wants to travel the world with me?"That sounds exhausting.. I just wanna hang out with some kindhearted lazy fatso nerd who's as miserable as me.. someone to relate to..<a href="https://beige.party/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a>

Girl on the NetGenuinely blown away by how popular this post has been. Now that the internet is becoming more hostile to adult content, maybe I should pivot to <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> advice. I have lots to say! Part 2 will go up on Wednesday next week - subscribe at the bottom of this post for updates. <a href="https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/test-date-blog-reader/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/test-date-blog-reader/</a>

Lydia SchochI wonder if the Fediverse will ever create an app for dating and/or friendship? They’ve done just about everything else so far. 🤔<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Fediverse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Fediverse</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Dating</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/DatingApp" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#DatingApp</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Friendship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Friendship</a>

Girl on the NetI didn't expect any men to take me up on my offer of doing a test <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/date" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#date</a> for feedback but... someone did! Meet Jack! And learn some fun stuff about <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> along the way: how to write a great first message, why positivity is key, and more... <a href="https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/test-date-blog-reader/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/test-date-blog-reader/</a> <a href="https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/test-date-blog-reader/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/test-date-blog-reader/</a>

Girl on the NetI'd love this to get a lot of shares. It's SFW and I think genuinely helpful - some of Jack's mistakes are ones many make on <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#dating</a> sites, and I have given useful advice on how to avoid making them. Especially proud of 'compliment, connect, question'. Make your first message stand out, innit.

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