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proudnb<p>It’s ok to be scared about the idea of being nonbinary if you’re questioning. </p><p>Growth and change are often scary, especially when dealing with labels considered “controversial” by many. There’s nothing inherently wrong with being afraid.</p><p>Just remember that there are many of us who have been where you are now, and many can help you find your courage.</p><p>You are not alone.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/Nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Nonbinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/questioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>questioning</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Don't worry about how long it took for you to learn that you're nonbinary.</p><p>There are countless reasons beyond your control that can slow your progress, making you question your gender for years (if you wonder at all).</p><p>The important thing is that you overcame those obstacles to get here. </p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/Nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Nonbinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/questioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>questioning</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>If you want to call yourself nonbinary, you can. </p><p>It's alright if you're not sure how or what the specifics may be. Claim it, if the term feels right.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/questioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>questioning</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>You deserve a good life.</p><p>Society may have treated you poorly, but that doesn't mean you've earned it. </p><p>You are valued and needed by us all.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/GenderQueerPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenderQueerPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/TransPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/GenderQueer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenderQueer</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>You can love yourself for being nonbinary. </p><p>It may take time and a lot of work, but you will overcome the artificial self hatred instilled in you by the cowards of your childhood. </p><p>You will come to love yourself because an indomitable being like yourself is worthy of it. </p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>If you need permission to look into medically transitioning as a nonbinary person, I'm giving it to you.</p><p>Gender affirming care is something that belongs to you, too (regardless of the various legal barriers you may need to overcome).</p><p>You deserve a chance to explore and feel happy in your skin.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/transitioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transitioning</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>If all you can do right now as a nonbinary person is survive in spite of bigots, then keep at it.</p><p>Hateful people want you to give up. Your community needs you to survive. </p><p>With time, I hope, that you'll also live for the joy you deserve.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>By embracing yourself as nonbinary, you're focusing on life, not hate, which means that you actually have more than your oppressors do.</p><p>They drift through a life ruled by fear, stuck hiding from fabricated monsters. </p><p>Keep growing, nonbinary folks.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/transphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transphobia</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Simply focusing on making a decent life for yourself as a nonbinary person is a benefit to you and to all of us. </p><p>Be yourself and make the world a more welcoming and open place for everyone.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/activism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>activism</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>You should not be expected to know every possible nonbinary label you can choose from (or that you can make them yourself).</p><p>It’s ok to feel lost among them all and not know where to start when you’re questioning.</p><p>This is a new area of knowledge for you, and, like every new subject, there’s a lot to take in.</p><p>We all have to start somewhere. Take your time.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/questioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>questioning</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>If you have recently figured out that you're nonbinary, then you'll be okay. </p><p>It's not the end of the world. You can adapt your existing life to fit you. Or, you can build a new one from scratch.</p><p>This is simply a new beginning. </p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/questioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>questioning</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>I want to thank those nonbinary people who are able to be visible in society. It's a dangerous place to be, but we need you.</p><p>For those nonbinary people unable (or simply unwilling) to be visible, thank you for making the world a little less lonesome and dangerous by simply existing as you are.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryCommunity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryCommunity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>I hope you build the strength fight for your needs as a nonbinary person.</p><p>Learning to say no, accept help, and take up space are difficult for many people. When much of the world is on a mission to erase you, asserting your basic needs is a heroic act.</p><p>It's hard, but you are stronger.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>You have the power to make change as a nonbinary person.</p><p>It doesn’t matter how many disregard you because you are “too complicated” for them to want to understand, or how many times your needs are considered irrelevant. </p><p>You will always have the power to change the world.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>You, a nonbinary person, are real.</p><p>No twisted rhetoric, tired bigotry, or irrational thinking can permanently plaster over the truth of your existence.</p><p>Hold tight to the truth.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Your nonbinary body is beautiful. Your body is no less beautiful than a cis person's.</p><p>For many, in fact, you are even more lovely than that.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/appearance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>appearance</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>If you are still looking for your "style" or the best way to express how you're nonbinary, don't worry.</p><p>Maybe you'll build it over the years or maybe you'll find that you've had it all along.</p><p>One way or another, you'll find it one day.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/style" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>style</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/appearance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>appearance</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Make life difficult for those who wish to oppress, erase, and destroy nonbinary people.</p><p>Your oppressors are spoiled and accustomed to getting their way. They expect you to give in without a fight.</p><p>So, resist and make them afraid. Resist to keep other nonbinary people brave.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryCommunity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryCommunity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>Now is the time to wear nonbinary pride gear (if you want to and if you can).</p><p>It is more dangerous to do so at this time, but that's exactly why it's needed and appreciated.</p><p>The sight of it will absolutely make someone's day.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/PrideGear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PrideGear</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a></p>
proudnb<p>It's normal and understandable to be afraid of the future as a nonbinary person.</p><p>Make a space for any despair you might have. However, it's important not to simply stay in that space. </p><p>Contribute your skills or resources to empowering our community. Support other nonbinary people nearby with your company. If all you can do is survive, then continue to stubbornly do so.</p><p>As always, we have work to do.</p><p><a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPositivity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPositivity</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinaryPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinaryPride</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/exorsexism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>exorsexism</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a></p>