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Silver Arrows<p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CPTSD</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfSabotage</span></a></p><p>What makes CPTSD survivors self-sabotage? When something good comes your way, do you think, "This is too good to be true, so I might as well pre-empt the bad ending?"</p><p>Or do you think, "I don't deserve happiness," and so you go out your way to destroy it, whether consciously or not, so you can say, "See? I was right. I'm a bad person. I don't deserve good things."</p><p>That's the trauma speaking, not reality. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://steppingstonespsychology.com/blog-resources/complex-trauma-attachment-and-self-sabotage/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">steppingstonespsychology.com/b</span><span class="invisible">log-resources/complex-trauma-attachment-and-self-sabotage/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://rolandbal.com/self-sabotage/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">rolandbal.com/self-sabotage/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
Mark Wyner Won’t Comply :vm:<p>“It you have to trick someone into supporting progressive legislation that would benefit them because if you told them the truth outright they’d oppose it because they prefer to align themselves with politics, politicians, and ideologies that won’t necessarily benefit them but explicitly harm others…it’s proof that they are both a bigot and an idiot, which is a lethal combination.”</p><p>—Olayemi Olurin</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/SystemicRacism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SystemicRacism</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bigotry</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Legislation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Legislation</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Amerikkka" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Amerikkka</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/SelfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfSabotage</span></a></p>
Michael Lucas :flan_set_fire:<p>I've got 50,000 words of Rats' Man's Lackey stories. That's 1-2 stories short of a collection. Maybe I should abandon all current projects and write those stories instead? :flan_think: <a href="https://io.mwl.io/tags/writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writing</span></a> <a href="https://io.mwl.io/tags/selfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfSabotage</span></a> <a href="https://io.mwl.io/tags/butItWouldAmuseMeAndThatsWhatsImportantRight" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>butItWouldAmuseMeAndThatsWhatsImportantRight</span></a>?</p>
Susan Larson ♀️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈<p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/SethMeyers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SethMeyers</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Stunned" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Stunned</span></a> By <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Trump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trump</span></a>'s '<a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Olympic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Olympic</span></a>-Level <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Idiot" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Idiot</span></a>' Level Of <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/SelfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfSabotage</span></a> </p><p>The <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/formerPresident" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>formerPresident</span></a> keeps digging himself into a deeper hole. </p><p><a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/seth-meyers-trump-union-musk_n_66bf176be4b056d6350fff53" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">huffpost.com/entry/seth-meyers</span><span class="invisible">-trump-union-musk_n_66bf176be4b056d6350fff53</span></a></p>
Susan Larson ♀️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈<p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/DonaldTrump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DonaldTrump</span></a>'s new <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/danger" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>danger</span></a>: <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Overexposure" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Overexposure</span></a>. </p><p>Former President Trump is flirting with a familiar pattern of <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/SelfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfSabotage</span></a>, betting he can reverse his <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/polling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polling</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/slide" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>slide</span></a> with one simple <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/trick" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trick</span></a>: Give the <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/public" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>public</span></a> more Trump. <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Democrats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Democrats</span></a>, on the other hand, see Trump's <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/freewheeling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>freewheeling</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/speeches" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>speeches</span></a> as a <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/goldmine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>goldmine</span></a> for <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/viral" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>viral</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/clips" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>clips</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/attackad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>attackad</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/material" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>material</span></a> painting the <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Republican" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Republican</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/nominee" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nominee</span></a> as <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/incoherent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>incoherent</span></a>, "<a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/unhinged" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>unhinged</span></a>," and just plain <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/weird" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>weird</span></a>. </p><p><a href="https://www.axios.com/2024/08/16/trump-press-conferences-speeches" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">axios.com/2024/08/16/trump-pre</span><span class="invisible">ss-conferences-speeches</span></a></p>
Susan Larson ♀️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈<p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/RaMellRoss" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RaMellRoss</span></a>’s <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Poetic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poetic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Portrait" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Portrait</span></a> of <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Black" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Black</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Life" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Life</span></a> in the <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/American" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>American</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/South" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>South</span></a>. </p><p>As his new <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/book" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>book</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/spell" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spell</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Women" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Women</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transgender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQIA</span></a> Time, Practice, American, Body" is published by <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/MACK" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MACK</span></a>, the <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Oscar" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Oscar</span></a>-<a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/nominated" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nominated</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/filmmaker" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>filmmaker</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/artist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>artist</span></a> talks about his <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/lifelong" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lifelong</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/obsession" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obsession</span></a> with the American South, and <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/photography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>photography</span></a>’s “<a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/capacity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>capacity</span></a> to <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/SelfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfSabotage</span></a>”</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Women" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Women</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transgender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQIA</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Entertainment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Entertainment</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/TheArts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TheArts</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Literature" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Literature</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Books</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Reading" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Reading</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Representation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Representation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Culture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Culture</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/BlackMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BlackMastodon</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.anothermag.com/art-photography/15283/ramell-ross-interview-spell-time-practice-american-body-mack" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">anothermag.com/art-photography</span><span class="invisible">/15283/ramell-ross-interview-spell-time-practice-american-body-mack</span></a></p>
Mellifera<p>"I just don't understand why I'm so tired today" wonders woman who didn't take her black ass to sleep till until 1am.</p><p><a href="https://c.im/tags/SelfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfSabotage</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/HiItsMe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HiItsMe</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/ImTheProblem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ImTheProblem</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/ItsMe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ItsMe</span></a></p>
💫 Simply Anxious 💜<p><a href="https://ohai.social/tags/SelfSabotage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfSabotage</span></a> can be a major obstacle in <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/anxietyRecovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>anxietyRecovery</span></a>. It can involve unhelpful thoughts and actions that keep us from moving forward. To stop it, consider joining a peer support group, increasing <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/selfAwareness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfAwareness</span></a>, setting mini goals, and practicing <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/mindfulness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mindfulness</span></a>.</p><p>By challenging and shifting these behaviours, recovery can be improved.</p><p>💜 <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/Anxiety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Anxiety</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/AnxietyDisorder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AnxietyDisorder</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/AnxietyRecovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AnxietyRecovery</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/AnxietyHealing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AnxietyHealing</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/AnxietyTips" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AnxietyTips</span></a> <a href="https://ohai.social/tags/EmotionalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalHealth</span></a></p>