@petrillic@hachyderm.
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When I was identifying as #nonbinary, I was at a bar with a coworker while we were attending an in-person work conference.
He says to me, "If you're thinking of jumping the fence... Men are assholes."
Like, he was mansplaining /men/.
He didn't talk about it, much, but as an Electrical #Engineer, he had worked on military aircraft. And, now he's working on #Sustainability and #Water #Conservation in his community.