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Ashley Halliwell<p><strong>HE’S JUST LIKE ME FOR REAL 🤣🤣🤣</strong></p><p>One of my crushes sent me this and it basically hit me in the damn soul and I started crying laughing and had to share it here. </p><p>If I don’t know you or trust you, I would rather do ANYTHING ELSE than acknowledge that you’ve just flirted with me, but believe me, I know, and believe me, I’m Fucking Panicking. Often for YEARS. OOOPS 🤣</p><p>I do really like this guy, though… </p><p>-Lazarus </p><p><a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/actually-autistic/" target="_blank">#ActuallyAutistic</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/alexithymia/" target="_blank">#alexithymia</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/madmastodon/" target="_blank">#MadMastodon</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/madstudies/" target="_blank">#MadStudies</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/mentalhealth/" target="_blank">#mentalhealth</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/neurodivergence/" target="_blank">#neurodivergence</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/quoiromantic/" target="_blank">#quoiromantic</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/quoisexual/" target="_blank">#quoisexual</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/stroke-survivor/" target="_blank">#strokeSurvivor</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/what-are-feelings/" target="_blank">#whatAreFeelings</a></p>
Ashley Halliwell<p><strong>Thanks, charisma.</strong></p><p>People tend to act like this when they see me:</p><p>Meanwhile I’m like this for years:</p><p>Do I ever figure it out? Occasionally. Does my brain shit a sideways brick first. Almost always.</p><p>YAY, emotions!</p><p>-Allēna </p><p><a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/charisma/" target="_blank">#charisma</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/emotions/" target="_blank">#emotions</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/quoiromantic/" target="_blank">#quoiromantic</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/shitpost/" target="_blank">#Shitpost</a></p>
kimchitea<p><a href="https://teatime.itch.io/just-you-and-me" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">teatime.itch.io/just-you-and-m</span><span class="invisible">e</span></a></p><p>Just released an English translation patch for "Just you and me talking about love" thanks to Shinzou Translations! A very short <a href="https://fandom.ink/tags/BoysLove" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BoysLove</span></a> <a href="https://fandom.ink/tags/VisualNovel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VisualNovel</span></a> by Gracias about the nature of love &amp; attraction. Happy Pride Month to <a href="https://fandom.ink/tags/Asexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Asexual</span></a> <a href="https://fandom.ink/tags/Demisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Demisexual</span></a> and <a href="https://fandom.ink/tags/Quoiromantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Quoiromantic</span></a> folks =)</p>
Delta<p>introduction post</p><p>i guess this is going to be an elaboration of my bio.</p><p>my name is Delta, i'm 24 and i'm a german who lives in the uk.</p><p>my pronouns in english are ve/ver/vis. xe/xem/xyr, ne/nem/nir, ze/hir, fae/faer or ae/aer are also ok, but ve/ver/vis is preferred.</p><p>(auf deutsch bitte xier/xies/xiem/xien, nin/nims/nim/nin oder ser/ses/sem/sen, ohne präferenz.)</p><p>i'm <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/maverique" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>maverique</span></a> and <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/xenogender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xenogender</span></a>. maverique means that my gender is disconnected from manhood and womanhood without being agender or neutral; i still have a distinct gendered feeling. in my case, it also means being disconnected from masculinity and femininity. xenogender means that i have many genders based on things that society would not usually associate with gender, in my case those genders relate to space, certain aesthetics, music, fictional characters or media. i experience my xenogenders only partially and they fluctuate in intensity. i'm <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> and i don't use a suffix but if i had to use one i'd be transmaverine. i also sometimes call myself ftx or ftmv (no, this is not referring to my sex or my agab).</p><p>i'm a <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/quoiromantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>quoiromantic</span></a> <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/asexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>asexual</span></a>, meaning i'm ace without a romantic orientation.</p><p>i call myself <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/omni" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>omni</span></a>, <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/pan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pan</span></a> and <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/bi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bi</span></a> pretty much interchangeably, specifically without a suffix because i refuse to define my attraction any further than not romantic and not sexual. i'm also grey for an undefinable kind of attraction.</p><p>i call myself <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gay</span></a> because my attraction to all genders feels gay (in the diamoric sense, not in the same/similar gender sense). i use some other diamoric labels too, such as trixic, toric and cypric.</p><p>i'm <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/otherkin" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>otherkin</span></a>, specifically a soong-type android.</p><p>i'm <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/fat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fat</span></a>. that's all i can say to that.</p><p>i'm <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/autikinetic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autikinetic</span></a> (or <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/audhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>audhd</span></a> but i prefer autikinetic), <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/borderline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>borderline</span></a>, traumatised from my childhood as a whole and a specific event, phobic of social interaction, fire and crossing streets and i have dermatillomania; read: i am very <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a>.</p><p>i am hard of sight. my vision in my better eye is 30% and in my worse eye it's 10%.</p><p>i love listening to podcasts and audiobooks, <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/StarTrek" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StarTrek</span></a>, language, gaming and learning about people's identities.</p><p>i have my own <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/podcast" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>podcast</span></a> called misfit media in which i talk about queerness, <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> and more.</p><p><a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/disabled" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disabled</span></a> <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/elsegender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>elsegender</span></a> <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/HardOfSight" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HardOfSight</span></a> <a href="https://catcatnya.com/tags/LowVision" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LowVision</span></a></p>
PaulaToThePeople<p>Hey Fedi,<br>Is anybody here <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/WTFromantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WTFromantic</span></a> / <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/QuoiRomantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>QuoiRomantic</span></a> and if so, would you write a short text about it for my book?<br>I'm looking for someone who will write about what WTF-romantic means and what it means for them.</p><p><a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AskFedi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AskFedi</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/BoostsWelcome" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BoostsWelcome</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/FollowerPower" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FollowerPower</span></a></p>
Anna Nicholson<p>I’m <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> and <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a>, and I’m a <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NonBinary</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/AceSpec" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AceSpec</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/quoiromantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>quoiromantic</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/lesbian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lesbian</span></a> (as far as I can tell)</p><p>I have had lots of <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a> issues over the years, and have some chronic physical issues as well, among them <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/IBS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IBS</span></a> and <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/AnkylosingSpondylitis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AnkylosingSpondylitis</span></a></p><p>I am an occasional activist, with interests in <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> rights, <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> and <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/neurodiversity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodiversity</span></a>, as well as concerns of other marginalised groups, and the <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/ClimateCrisis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ClimateCrisis</span></a></p><p>3/5</p>
Anna Nicholson<p>I was pleased to take part in a well-designed survey on <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/quoi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>quoi</span></a> identities (as I’ve found that <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/quoiromantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>quoiromantic</span></a> fits me pretty well until I ever work out what this thing called romantic attraction actually is)</p><p>Anyway, the results are now available:</p><p><a href="https://theacetheist.wordpress.com/2022/05/06/quoi-identity-survey-results/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">theacetheist.wordpress.com/202</span><span class="invisible">2/05/06/quoi-identity-survey-results/</span></a></p>