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Verđandi K. Soldusty<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <br>And two hours after NY Mam's weekly phone call, I can definitely say that &amp; has done a number on me. Still totally burned out from it &amp; the frelling Waiting mode before it.</p><p>I'm just going to have to call tomorrow &amp; Tuesday my weekend. Just me, my chocolate eggs &amp; I… well, okay probably some Mastodon too. </p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/Burnout" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Burnout</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Spoons</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autistic</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Droppie [infosec] 🐨:archlinux: :kde: :firefox_nightly: :thunderbird: :vegan:​<p><a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-03-31/gender-euphoria-research-transgender-day-of-visibility/105098958" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">abc.net.au/news/2025-03-31/gen</span><span class="invisible">der-euphoria-research-transgender-day-of-visibility/105098958</span></a></p><p>Good, for those it benefits. An ironic unfunny unpleasant joke, for me. </p><p><a href="https://infosec.space/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQIA</span></a>+ <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/GenderDysphoria" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenderDysphoria</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Transmisia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transmisia</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Transphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transphobia</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trans</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/TransRightsAreHumanRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransRightsAreHumanRights</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/FsckThePatriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FsckThePatriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/fsckALLreligion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fsckALLreligion</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/RWNJs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RWNJs</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/FsckRWNJs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FsckRWNJs</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/FsckChristoFacists" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FsckChristoFacists</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/ChangeTheSystem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ChangeTheSystem</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/FuckAroundAndFindOut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FuckAroundAndFindOut</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Misanthropy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Misanthropy</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/TransRepresentation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransRepresentation</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/transwomen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transwomen</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/transkids" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transkids</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Depression" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Depression</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/SelfLoathing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfLoathing</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/SocialPhobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialPhobia</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/FailedTransition" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FailedTransition</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/PostOp" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PostOp</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Transwoman" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transwoman</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Unworthy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Unworthy</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/Nihilism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Nihilism</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/ExistentialFutility" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ExistentialFutility</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/SuicideIdeation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SuicideIdeation</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.space/tags/PrimalScream" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PrimalScream</span></a></p>
Vesna Manojlović<p>Burnout, illustrated : ups &amp; downs of insomnia, mood, energy, <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> , grief, f*cks to give … (alt text: Graph of “minutes awake in the middle of the night” peaking at 2 hours every second day) <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/burnout" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>burnout</span></a> <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/insomnia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>insomnia</span></a> <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/chronic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronic</span></a> <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/stress" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stress</span></a> <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/CPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CPTSD</span></a> <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/grief" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>grief</span></a> <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a></p>
Teapot Ben<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://beige.party/@miffyhelen" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>miffyhelen</span></a></span> I'm now intrigued by your spoon. Is it a spoon in the shape of a seal, made from wax? Is it a spoon for feeding wax to seals? (Hopefully not)</p><p>Do you take it with you and wave it as a greeting/parting gesture at people? Can it be used like a sword to knight people?</p><p>So many questions! <a href="https://glammr.us/tags/Spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Spoons</span></a> <a href="https://glammr.us/tags/FarewellSpoonWave" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FarewellSpoonWave</span></a> <a href="https://glammr.us/tags/IHaveUsedTheWordSpoonTooMuch" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IHaveUsedTheWordSpoonTooMuch</span></a></p>
Verđandi K. Soldusty<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <br>Most of today's big tasks of the fairly enjoyable type (updating a few days of trackers &amp; diary entries &amp; drawing up next month's pages) have not happened. Just nothing in the tank so instead of doing at least one before supper I'm rewarding my failure today / boosting my morale for tomorrow with a movie &amp; maybe some snacks. </p><p>I made the mistake of thinking I'd found some spoons but doing the washing up, reading, mastodoning &amp; The Phone Call, cleaned me out.</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autistic</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Spoons</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Burnout" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Burnout</span></a></p>
BRING HOME ABREGO GARCIA<p>🥄Space Karen needs SPOONS 🥄</p><p>🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄<br>🧀 :cheese_swiss: :cheese_gouda: :cheese_american: :cheese_gouda: :cheese_swiss: 🧀 <br>🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄🥄</p><p><a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/SpaceKaren" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SpaceKaren</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/NaziNepoBaby" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NaziNepoBaby</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/BrieBest" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BrieBest</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/SpoonMan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SpoonMan</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/elon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>elon</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/b3d" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>b3d</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/cheese" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cheese</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/CheezeEmAll" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CheezeEmAll</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/AsiagoAntifa" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AsiagoAntifa</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/cheeze" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cheeze</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/spoon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoon</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/fascist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fascist</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/AntiFascist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AntiFascist</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/ForkInTheRoad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ForkInTheRoad</span></a> <a href="https://hellions.cloud/tags/nazi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nazi</span></a></p>
For Pete's Sake!<p>I really wish I could adequately explain to my Neurotypical wife how things tax me and deplete my <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> </p><p>I have a movie advance screening 'premier' on Saturday 25th. It's in a hard to reach art house cinema in the north east of London. So I have to travel across London South (Saff) to North (Norf) and it's expected to take 1hr 30 to get from A to B.</p><p>I've already planned my route, I know when to depart, how to get there and I've even figured out where I'll eat before hand and how to get home afterwards. </p><p>Of course, I'll be travelling at my speed in my style. Headphones on, sunglasses on, Avoiding crowds where possible, Spoon preservation mode engaged.</p><p>Wife just had a "brilliant idea" as I'm going to be in town on Satuday we could go in together earlier, take in an art exhibition, go for a lunch out in Central London, then do a little shopping. She'll then go home and leave me get from wherever we end up to where I need to be for my movie.</p><p>She doesn't realise I have a spoons budget. I've planned out my day meticulously so I don't have any untoward issues that deplete my spoons further than they need to.</p><p>All her "additional activities" eat into my budget. When I travel with her I can't wear my earphones. She keeps talking to me, asking me questions etc. Then she (confident in London) will set off to our destination at her speed taking the most efficient route. Not necessarily the quietest or least stressful.</p><p>I don't know where we'll be eating. She'll decide when we get to the area where we are. I won't know in advance about the menu, how noisy it'll be, how long service is going to take and how long it'll take me to get from this unknown location to my movie later.</p><p>And when I sound hesitant she gets a bit defensive and saying "well I just thought it would be nice to do something together!" </p><p>Sure, yes it would be. But I wouldn't be going to my movie afterwards. I'd have no spoons so there'd be no point. All my spoons will be spent. I'd have no spoons left to actually enjoy the movie I've already paid for.</p><p><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/Autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autistic</span></a></p>
Niamh Garvey<p>I need more <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/Spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Spoons</span></a> today. Preferably lovely shiny ones. In fact, shiny table spoons. No no, giant serving spoons. </p><p>Not even sure I've got a teaspoon in me today. </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span></p>
Droppie [infosec] 🐨♀:archlinux: :kde: :firefox_nightly: :thunderbird:🦘:vegan:​<p>I learned in fedi-posts/toots that yesterday/today [timezone crap] is apparently the annual Trans Day of Remembrance. I didn't know that, i didn't know there was such a thing [maybe it's a Merkan thing?]. Other times i read that it's annual Pride Day again, but similarly [though in this case yes i have heard of it] i never know it's coming, til i begin reading of it again. I live under my rock, keeping myself alone at home, participating in no LGBTQI community of any kind, not being activist in any way, just trying to be motivated enough to bother getting outta bed each morning. I wonder if more trans peeps are public &amp; active, or solitary &amp; inactive like me. I admire those with the courage, determination, fortitude, &amp; self-confidence. I know how to spell those words, but that's all. Onya, fellow trans peeps. 🤗 💜</p><p><a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQIA</span></a>+ <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Transphobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transphobia</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Homophobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Homophobia</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Racism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Racism</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trans</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/TransRightsAreHumanRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransRightsAreHumanRights</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/GayRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GayRights</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/WomensRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WomensRights</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/FsckThePatriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FsckThePatriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/fsckALLreligion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fsckALLreligion</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/RWNJs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RWNJs</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/FsckRWNJs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FsckRWNJs</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/FsckChristoFacists" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FsckChristoFacists</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/ChangeTheSystem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ChangeTheSystem</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/FuckAroundAndFindOut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FuckAroundAndFindOut</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Misanthropy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Misanthropy</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/GayRepresentation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GayRepresentation</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/LesbianRepresentation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LesbianRepresentation</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/TransRepresentation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransRepresentation</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/TDoR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TDoR</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Depression" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Depression</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/SelfLoathing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfLoathing</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/SocialPhobia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialPhobia</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/FailedTransition" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FailedTransition</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/PostOp" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PostOp</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Transwoman" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transwoman</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Unworthy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Unworthy</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Nihilism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Nihilism</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/ExistentialFutility" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ExistentialFutility</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/SuicideIdeation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SuicideIdeation</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/PrimalScream" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PrimalScream</span></a></p>
Dave Dawkins (D. Harrigon)<p>It's going to be that kind of week.</p><p><a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/WritersLife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WritersLife</span></a> <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/AmWriting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AmWriting</span></a> (not) <a href="https://writing.exchange/tags/life" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>life</span></a></p>
Pete🎸🎶🐍📽🎞☮🌍🙂😭<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://social.coop/@ideogram" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>ideogram</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> </p><p>I'll tell you what's ironic: Alanis Morrisette had 10,000 spoons and was still depressed.</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/NoSpoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NoSpoons</span></a></p>
Lanie Carmelo<p>Good night, everyone! 🌙 I know it's only 1:00 PM, but I've been super productive today and now I'm starting to not feel so great. Time to listen to my body, grab a bite to eat, and then head to bed. Rest is important, no matter the time of day! Take care of yourselves, friends. 💤</p><p><a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCare</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/ChronicIllness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ChronicIllness</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/ListenToYourBody" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ListenToYourBody</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/RestWhenNeeded" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RestWhenNeeded</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Spoons</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/DisabilityLife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DisabilityLife</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/sleepDisorders" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sleepDisorders</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/non24" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>non24</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/spoonie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoonie</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/chronicIllness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronicIllness</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/chronicPain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronicPain</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/NEISVoid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NEISVoid</span></a></p>
PaulaToThePeople<p>Edit: No, it's not. Thanks for all the answers. 🙂 </p><p>Serious question: Is <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/FediverseSlang" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FediverseSlang</span></a>?</p><p>You know as in "I have no spoons" meaning I have no drive and suffer from avolition or anhedonia?</p><p>I have yet to encounter a non fedizen who knows and understands the phrase.</p>
mythologyandhistory<p>Did you know that <a href="https://mas.to/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> were not that popular in medieval <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Europe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Europe</span></a>?</p><p>You probably know that forks were not yet common during the <a href="https://mas.to/tags/MiddleAges" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MiddleAges</span></a>.</p><p>Knives were the primary utensils at the table. Vegetables came on platters, soup in bowls, &amp; meat on the spit. </p><p>2 people shared one bowl, &amp; 2 pieces of bread were served to each person. The bread was used to mop up the soup liberally. <br>Solid food was eaten with fingers.</p><p>Spoons were only used if necessary &amp; were counted before &amp; after use. </p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/history" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>history</span></a></p>
olena<p>Had a meltdown at work, as usual, after being thrown into a situation where I had to be responsible for and explain to others and control the execution of a task which was created without me and against my advise, and with which I disagree. <br>After that, apologized to the coworkers, explaining to them what happened with a help of that spoon metaphor. <br>Now, they coined a new word: spoony - someone who requires others to spend a lot of spoons to interact with them. “No, Kevin, not now, you’re too spoony for us to talk now!”<br><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <br><a href="https://mementomori.social/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <br><a href="https://mementomori.social/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> <br><a href="https://mementomori.social/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a></p>
Rupert Brackenbury<p>The <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoons</span></a> metaphor is so useful, but I do wish it used a unit of measurement that was more self descriptive than cutlery.</p><p>I've seen "health bar," "sanity meter," "mana," &amp; "magika," but I'm not sure those are better.<br><a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/spoonstheory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>spoonstheory</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.nz/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a></p>
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Denise was singing along with the café music:

"It's like 10,000 #spoons when all you need is a knife
It's meeting the man of my dreams
& then meeting his beautiful wife
& isn't it ironic..."

Daniel opened his mouth, but Denise scowled & pressed a finger to his lips.

"DON'T. I do not want to hear how no, that's not the meaning of 'ironic'! I KNOW, ok? I just want to enjoy the song!"

"I was just going to say that 10,000 spoons is a lotta spoons," muttered Daniel.

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