imdat celeste :v_tg: :v_nb: :v_genderfluid: [witchzard]<p>One thing I found fascinating, and quite positive I might say, in the documentary "Will & Harper" that Harper had not done any voice training to change her voice and just kept her voice as is.</p><p>There is this beautiful scene where they meet the trans woman in Peoria, IL, who tells them about her own experience with voice training. I am paraphrasing, but it ended something like "... then I realized: I am doing it for 'them', not for me, I am doing it for the society. That voice wasn't mine, this, the one here, this is my voice and has always been. And then I stopped."</p><p>I guess if anything, this is what <em>I</em> got out of "Will & Haper": It is not me who has to try hard to fit in, no, it is up to the society to accept me as I am - I am a good person, a kind one, I don't need to adapt to society's expectations of how a femme person "should sound". If they misgender me because of my voice, I'll correct them (as Will did in that diner when the service person misgendered Harper, seemingly because of her voice, and the service person immediately corrected it)</p><p><a href="https://tau-ceti.space/tags/WillAndHarper" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WillAndHarper</span></a></p>