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"Others have proposed that individuals with autism are more prone to reject ideas they perceive as flawed or logically inconsistent (Kristensen & Broome, 2016), such as social conditioning and social norms (Ansara & Hegarty, 2011), and this facilitates 'coming out.'"

@Autistrain @actuallyautistic @neurodiversity

lgbtqnation.com/2024/06/autist

LGBTQ Nation · Autistic people aren't being fooled into being nonbinary. We see past the binary that fools you. - LGBTQ NationBy Jorie McKibbin

Go and mix up the "women's" and "men's" sections until the division is meaningless. Take the gender roles that have harmed you and twist them into being yours. Subvert, shift, and change the binary until it breaks from only two to infinite.

Our gift to the world as nonbinary people is destroying the constraints that the gender binary places on all people who come into contact with it.

Nonbinary people are often told that if we were just "logical" enough, then we'd accept the gender binary.

The fact is, most nonbinary terminology and ideas are logical and reliable if you learn about them. We have also addressed (along with many others) the cultural origins of the gender binary and it's shortcomings.

Now, I'm not here to write a paper, so let me just say this; what's really illogical is refusing to learn the above facts in the first place and then getting angry when you don't understand.

You don't have to be consistently "feminine" or "masculine" in your appearance as a nonbinary person if you don't want to be. You don't have to engage with either at all.

Those categories are very subjective and flexible for us. Bend and mix them for your use. Invent something new.

"One is not #born, but rather becomes, a #woman. No #biological, #psychological, or #economic destiny defines the figure that the #human #female acquires in #society; it is #civilization as a whole that develops this product, intermediate between female and #eunuch, which one calls #feminine. Only the mediation of another can establish an #individual as an #Other. In so far as he exists for himself, the #child would not be able to understand himself as sexually differentiated. In #girls as in #boys the #body is first of all the radiation of a #subjectivity, the instrument that accomplishes the comprehension of the world: it is through the eyes, the hands, and not through the sexual parts that children apprehend the universe."

—Simone de #Beauvoir, philosopher and social theorist, in The Second Sex (1949)

Just my favorite Second Wave feminist, shattering the entire concept of the gender binary and "biological womanhood" in one masterful swoop.

Making a place for yourself as a nonbinary person in many of today's societies is difficult.

Jobs, family roles, even hobbies all tend to be gendered, which isn't very helpful for anyone and it's easy to get lost trying to navigate it.

Things might be messy now, but in time you will find your way.

Take your time in working out your life. There's no rush.