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Hey. Help us pay for my new wheelchair? I'm desperately hoping the issues with my current chair are that it's old and battered and possibly needs more in repairs than would be worth it (it's better than NOT having one, don't get me wrong...). But $1,100 (rounded slightly up) is a dear price even if cheaper than we'd ever get anything custom.

We're hoping to pay it off in chunks, since we used a credit card, but. The assurance of *having* the money to pay it off would be awesome - and y'all can say you helped buy my chair! Win/win!

Current goal is at 0/$100

(Unless that's changed literally while I've been typing 🤣)

My cashapp is $Inoru, spouse's CashApp is $ceahhettan and his
Venmo is @/californiummm; ask them for paypal/zelle. Comment wheelchair or a Blue wheelchair emoji with specifically-for-this donations! Any amount helps and I/we appreciate!

<*wiggles in New Wheelchair excitement*>

#crowdfund #crowdfunding #transcrowdfund #transcrowdfunding #disabledcrowdfund #disabledcrowdfunding #deafcrowdfund #deafcrowdfunding #helpfolkslive #HelpFolksLive2025 #mutualaid #MutualAidRequest #moneyhelp #ambulatorywheelchairuser #hEDS #hypermobility #hypermobileEhlersDanlosSyndrome #wheelchairuser #powerchair #wheelchaircrowdfunding #powerchaircrowdfunding #IsThisEnoughHashtags #hashtag

via @camilla

kolektiva.social/@camilla/1137

kolektiva.socialcamilla (@camilla@kolektiva.social)hi everyone! we have a new #MutualAid #MutualAidNeeded #MutualAidRequest #MastodonForHarris #Mastodon4Harris #HelpFolksLive #HelpFolksLive2025. we just replaced @inoru_no_hoshi@blorbo.social's power wheelchair with a new one that'll be here Saturday, for the fun sum of $1093.95 on a credit card, with monthly payments of just under $100. y'all, we bought this on faith and a prayer (and a reserve that will help but can't wholly cover the payments and help us not be crushed by poverty at the same time) because their old power wheelchair is unsafe now. it can't be driven across a curb cut without them ending up in the street, much more severely than my chair does. the motors struggle a good bit of the time. part of them having independence is the power wheelchair, so I'm asking to help us with the price of agency and independence as disabled individuals. as y'all probably know, we're both disabled and neither of us work, and we mostly survive off of the good will and kindness of our close friends and random strangers. goal $50/100; anything over goal will be paid to the credit card above and beyond the required payment to help pay it off sooner than the 12 months. put wheelchair in the comments. CashApp: $ ceahhettan Venmo: @ californiummm ask for PayPal/Zelle.

Honored to have my crochet patterns featured in the Zebra Club's holiday gift guide 🦓

jeanniedibon.com/hypermobility

Crocheting with hypermobility has been tough. Over the years I've had to limit my time spent crocheting, invest in some better hooks & braces, and take breaks from it every now and then due to injuries.

I always come back to it, because it remains a calming activity for me in its own way. With enough care and caution, I'm able to keep doing it. ☺️

Jeannie Di Bon - Specialist in movement therapy for hypermobility and EDS · Hypermobility Holiday Gift Guide 2024 - Jeannie Di BonWe’ve compiled this comprehensive list of holiday gift ideas for the hypermobile people in your life curated by members of The Zebra Club Community.

A slightly more bite-sized version of the studies I just shared.

This is FUCKING HUGE.

First of all, it means all of us who never got a full hEDS diagnosis (or who got downgraded when the diagnostic criteria changed) probably have the exact same genetic condition.

Secondly, there’s eventually going to be able to be a TEST for this??? No more “it’s all in your head” or “it might be anxiety”

ehlers-danlos.com/new-research

:bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜

I always love interacting with new like-minded people. My biggest issue... I'm unsure of how to interact with them at first! 🫣 Which makes it very challenging to "meet" new people online that could become part of my Friendos...

For those new to this account and my silly way of writing: Friendos is a word that I use with love and affection! I wrote a Toot a while ago in which I explained the term, so I'll link that here, as I don't have the spoons to explain again...
beige.party/@PixysJourney/1130

As I wrote in my introductions, yes I made two and I think I pinned both, I'm Actually Autistic, I'm very ADHD, I battle with depression and anxiety, I may have some slight forms of OCD and PTSD, as I struggle with aspects from both... And then there's physical issues that bother me as well...

I would love to chat more, when I have the spoons, with people who, like me, are "weirdos". I'm a bit of a nerd, but not into the details... Not smart enough for that...

I love to chat about health issues, about my dog, about my journey through life, about music, TV things and gaming...

I do struggle at times with the whole "social" aspect of the social media. Either I babble so much that you are exhausted when I'm done... Or I just read and like your toots. I occasionally boost toots. But not that often as I probably should? 🤔

I have several other accounts that I use, and also occasionally boost things from. But this is my main account at the moment.

Put Beige master blessed us with something like 11001 characters to work with! I've never used them all, but I'm known to write longer posts. I enjoy using emojis as I feel they help me express myself. I try not to use them too much, as I don't want to make people that need a teen readers go insane over my toots....

I try to use CW when I feel that things may be triggering. I don't CW my selfies anymore, but I do tag them with the hashtag EyeContact and Selfie. So hopefully these can help folks to filter my selfies from their time lines. (I've tooted about eye contact selfies and this was what was suggested to me by kind people who voted/replied).

I'm mostly active during my countries night time. I'm a night owl with a different routine than most. But this works best for me, so I always mention it to others, so they know. I'm in the Netherlands, so that's UTC+2, according to the interwebs.

I have moved house two months ago. A new town. A new start with everything new, routine wise. It's been a huge challenge, and it still is... So I still Toot about that a lot too.

I have a chocolate brown Labrador gall, Arwen, who turned 11 in July. She's a topic of many toots as well. I occasionally share videos of her here. Sometimes snaps, which I also share on my :pixelfed: Pixelfed (and then boost here).

I write for my own blog, which is mostly about me and my journey of life. My site van be found here: cynnisblog.wordpress.com/

So yeah... I share loads! And I love to share experiences. I love to learn new things about topics I'm interested in. And I like to "meet" new people who are kinda like me and would love to share timelines with me. 😊

Guess this is a sort of #Introduction Toot that wasn't intended as one, nor was it written like the usual ones. Guess that kinda sums me up a bit. Unusual :ablobcatangel:

I'll end the Toot with my usual emojis and hashtag and then I'll add some more tags to maybe be able to connect with more "weirdos" like me! :blobcat_tonguewink:

🧚🏼‍♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾

#PixysJourney

#WeirdFolks
@weirdfolks

Extra tags (in no particular order) :
#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #NeuroSpicy 🌶 #Labradorable #Labrador #Walking #Nature #PixysSnaps #Gaming #Photography #TV #Blog #ChronicallyIll #Fibromyalgia #Fitness #Hypermobility #WeightJourney #Routine #NightOwl

#EyeContact in attached #Selfie

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Now that this poll about hypermobility and broken bones has closed, here's some results.

57 hypermobile participants. 31.6% had broken any bones, 66.7% hadn't.

145 regularmobile participants. 31.7% had broken any bones, 68.3% hadn't.

I conclude: hypermobility probably doesn't affect whether or not you break any bones, maybe?

How many bones have you broken, and are you hypermobile?

This is a poll for everyone, but I'm tagging a few specific groups to make sure I get a good sample!

New funky intro post

Hilo, I'm Tea (He/Him)
I'm a transmasc artist and leftist and i also have funky things going on in my joints that make me more flexible than I should be, I am also suspected to not be very neurotypical

I play video games and at the time of writing this, I'm half fixated and half in sunk cost with Sky:Children of the Light (wouldn't recommend that one right now lol)

This is currently an alt account but I may move my main account here in the future if things go well for this instance and I end up liking it, who knows :3

Hope these hashtags work lol
#Introduction #TransMasc #TransGuy #Artist #Hypermobility #Neurodivergent #LGBTQ

I realize that some question the existence of #LongCOVID or whether it might be a risk factor for those of us with #EhlersDanlos.  If you are struggling with family, friends, employers or schools  to explain your COVID precautions / risks, these articles may be helpful. These articles may also be helpful in securing disability accommodations

First up an article from this summer written by the Ehlers Danlos Society 

ehlers-danlos.com/long-covid-a

Second, this year the Nature magazine specifically called out Ehlers Danlos as a risk factor for Long COVID

nature.com/articles/s41579-022

This last article just came out this month, and has undergone peer review

"Long COVID and the Diagnosis of Underlying Hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and Hypermobility Spectrum Disorders"

onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10

#EhlersDanlosSyndrome
#Hypermobility
#Covid
#Disability

It is important to always assess medical articles carefully and to discuss issues and concerns with your physician.

The Ehlers Danlos Society · Long Covid and Generalized Joint Hypermobility - The Ehlers Danlos SocietyDr. Philip Bull and Dr. Alan Hakim, in partnership with Long Covid advocate, Gez Medinger, are conducting new research looking at whether generalized (widespread) joint hypermobility may be a risk

Howdy kind Mastonauts! 😁 Welcome to this new account.
I made (another) account to share things that are not health or entertainment-related. I have dedicated accounts for those things (links in bio).

I will boost those toots when I feel them "good enough" to share with you.

I'm #AuDHD (#ActuallyAutistic and #ADHD). I live with #Fibromyalgia and #Hypermobility. Got a fake hip. Love fitness. Have an eating disorder that I struggle with. I also have been fighting with #ChronicDepression for many years.

My big love is my 10-year-old Labrador lady Arwen. She's slowly showing her age, bless her, so I'm often worried about that.

I have a silly kind of humor and often am either too straightforward or too anxious to say anything.

Have a nice day everyone! 🌸

Today I quit physical therapy and I'll see whenever I get enough courage and optimism back to search for a new one.

I recently got an injury I couldn't solve myself, so I searched help from a PT. The first one I got helped decently with this injury caused by #hypermobility, even though she didn't understand #MEcfs and all that comes with it.

After a few appointments she went on long sick leave (looks like long covid) and I got a replacement PT. The new PT didn't understand ME or my injury. She talked to me like I was a child and constantly said muscles and joints were supposed to hurt, invalidating my pain. I went twice and cancelled my other appointments, not wanting to go back.

The replacement PT started working less (looks like long covid) and a second replacement PT showed up. I had one appointment with her. She didn't understand ME, hypermobility or my injury. She kept telling me that I shouldn't be so scared of pain (I'm not) and that I shouldn't avoid movement (I don't). She accused me of lying when I told her I'm as active as I can be. Even when I explained I know the difference between good pain in muscles that are healing, and pain of something going really wrong in your body, she never listened to me. She said it's all in the mind and that I should just distract myself. She said that I should just exercise and I will be well again.

She refused to listen to my boundaries and physically pushed my hip with the injury into a painful position, worsening it in the process. I told her to stop and she took it as evidence that I'm a pain avoider. I've been to plenty of extremely painful PT sessions and I know that some types of pain are for my own good, but man, this definitely wasn't it. This was extremely misinformed treatment that actually harms patients. I am never going back.

I feel hurt, upset, and humiliated, even though I've had encounters like these dozens of times already! You never truly get used to it. ME/cfs and hypermobility often aren't taken seriously. But, it also didn't help that I was wearing a mask to avoid #covid and that I was immediately perceived as a hypochondriac. I didn't even stand a chance at being taken seriously.

Wearing a mask is such a disadvantage in healthcare now. I have several other illnesses that are generally recognized and not as contested as #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis. However, since mask mandates ended in healthcare settings half a year ago here, doctors have slowly started to approach these illnesses with doubt and skepticism too, because I refuse to unmask. It's starting to get more difficult for me to get my regular prescriptions.

I genuinely fear for my future and quality of life, if more and more care becomes inaccessible, both because of #covid19 infection risk and because of the way healthcare workers now treat people who try to avoid infection. This is starting to become the norm.

Figured I would make a new introduction post for the newcomers to Fedi. Long post because too many thoughts.

I'm a transmasculine artist (I unfortunately do not post publicly due to the current AI art stuff going on), I'm currently undiagnosed for alot of stuff, but I am suspected to be neurodivergent. I have hypermobility and I use a cane as an emergency mobility aid whenever my knees decide to dislocate, braces for whenever I am having joint pain aswell.

I occasionally play games, however I am not currently playing any at the time of writing this. I enjoy looking at FOSS and other open source/libre alternatives to everyday applications and websites I use.

If you want to buy some of my art or support me, I have a Kofi, a RedBubble and a Society6. For extra information such as pronouns, I have a pronouns.page in my bio, which has all of the sites that I'm associated with.

Word of warning: I don't post often, I mostly just boost on here, since I don't have the words to say whats on my mind most of the time. I also vent on here. I do try my best to tag stuff correctly and CW my vent posts.

Happy to be here!
#Introduction #TransMasc #TransGuy #Artist #HyperMobility #Neurodivergent #LGBTQ

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@CraftyJo Crafter with #hypermobility here 😃

How lucky that you can knit. My finger joints and really most of my hand ache after just a short while. Crocheting is a little better, because my fingers are more straight for that. Beading is OK as well but I need to do that at a desk. I really like sashiko but that is hard on my fingers 🪡 So I do a little at a time. Most of the time, I sew with a sewing machine. That works best, because it is not the same movements that are repeated all the time.