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Friendly reminder to check out the Kyndr app if you're in the US and looking for an alternative for Facebook groups 😃! They're small now, but they can't grow without growth (heh) so give 'em a try 😜! And don't forget to follow me there too lol 😉. I have my profile and regularly post in the art and crafts related communities (aka groups). Also, if y'all could repost this for visibility I would very much appreciate it 🥰!

#unitedstates #US #facebook #facebookgroups #socialmedia #alternativesocialmedia #altsocialmedia #groups #community #kindness

I run a local kink group on Facebook, and in November called someone in about being a chaser.. they decided to leave instead of engaging with the conversation about how chasing and the fetishisation of trans bodies is actually transphobia. After they left I attached a ban to their account so they couldn't rejoin and start shit because I had a feeling...

They've just tracked me down on Fetlife - 5 months later - and started drama in multiple groups there about it ("you banned me for no reason!"), posting in groups I'm in and commenting on threads I've posted in.

...but I made a mistake for banning them? 🤔

#kink#bdsm#Ds
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@Eleanore Duncan That's kind of difficult, actually.

Technically speaking, there is Friendica which was created in 2010 as a Facebook alternative (better than Facebook rather than an outright Facebook clone), and there are Hubzilla and (streams), both descendants of Friendica created by Friendica's creator. They're quite powerful, (streams) more than Friendica and Hubzilla even more than (streams), and they've got everything you need for social networking.

I've made a series of tables that compare these three with one another and with Mastodon. You can find them here.

But if you say, "app," I suppose you mean, "dedicated native mobile phone app." This is the first hindrance. Native specialised phone apps are only available for Friendica and then only for Android and Sailfish OS. The only iOS Friendica app is a closed beta; it exists, but you have to join its beta test program instead of being able to load it from the App Store easy-peasy.

Technically, you can use Friendica with some apps made for Mastodon. But you'll only have those features that Mastodon has, too. You won't see threaded conversations. You won't have text formatting. You won't have groups. You won't be able to post pictures. You won't have any access to any configuration. And so forth. You'll only have the absolute, bare-bone basics.

Otherwise, and for Hubzilla and (streams) generally, there's no way around the Web interface (browser, PWA).

As for community building, Friendica, Hubzilla and (streams) not only support groups, but they have groups/forums, optionally even private ones. Organisational presentation is possible, too. All three have blogging-level support of text formatting in their posts all the way to embedding an unlimited number of images right in the middle of a post. So a group could make an introduction post with headlines and bullet-point lists and tables and pictures and all the shebang and pin it at the top for all (permitted) visitors to see. Hubzilla even supports simple webpages which could be used for presentation. Hubzilla's own website is a webpage on a Hubzilla channel.

"Easy and clear," that's the issue here. Friendica has quite a bit of a learning curve. (streams) has an even steeper learning curve. Hubzilla has the steepest learning curve of all three. None of them has the UI/UX of something created by a Silicon Valley start-up from $50,000,000 of venture capital.

Ironically, Hubzilla is the one with the best user documentation. But what I mean is not the user documentation built into the hubs, but its complete re-write by a user that's intended to be built into Hubzilla itself one day and replace the old documentation. If you want to peruse it, you'll have to be told by an experience Hubzilla user that it exists, and where you can find it. Still, Hubzilla is highly complex with quite a bit of pitfalls and the worst UX of the three.

Friendica has a wiki, but it mostly covers how-tos for certain things instead of being a full-blown user manual.

(streams)' built-in help system is gradually being rebuilt from zero, but in the style of a technical specification again. And it's very incomplete.

Still, you will need some kind of documentation to get started with all three, ideally plus how-tos for Facebook refugees on how to get started and then do Facebook things. You can't use on either of the three what you've learned from Facebook. They do have everything you need as a Facebook refugee, but it looks different, it feels different, it works differently.

For example, if you're on either of the three, and you're looking for the place where you can create a new group/forum, you can look forever in vain. Unlike on Facebook, groups/forums are not an additional feature of their own. They're accounts (Friendica)/channels (Hubzilla, (streams)) like your user account/channel, but with special settings. This alone makes many Facebook users scream out that this feature is completely unuseable, simply because it isn't what they expect it to be.

In addition, if you run a Friendica group on the same node as your personal account, you have to log out and back in again to administer or moderate the group and to get gack to your account. But nobody tells you to have your group on another node than your personal account.

On Hubzilla and (streams), it's the opposite: It's better to not only have a group or forum on the same instance as your personal channel, but on the same account. You can have multiple channels, multiple fully separate identities on the same account because your identity is fully detached from your account. If you have your personal channel and your forum channel on the same account, you can jump back and forth between the two. But this is something that practically doesn't exist outside of Hubzilla and (streams), and so, nobody will tell you about this feature.

Even if you can wrap your mind around all this, you still aren't over the hump. Especially not on Hubzilla and (streams). On Hubzilla, you can have a restricted or private group/forum. But you have to dive into the permission settings of your forum channel, a place where you're being warned that you have to act carefully, and set the corresponding permissions accordingly by hand. On (streams), there's less to configure and no warning; instead, there are not one, but four types of forums. But neither the Web interface nor the documentation tells you what's what, and what does what.

Another idea, but much less like Facebook, would be Mbin. Technically, Mbin is an alternative to Reddit and Hacker News and kind of feels like Reddit, UI-wise. But it also offers personal microblogging instead of being limited to only group discussions, and it's much more compatible with the rest of the Fediverse.

There are two caveats again. One, most Mbin users are former Redditors. This means that Mbin's culture = Reddit's culture, including, but not limited to dank maymays, shitposts all over the place and potentially also power-tripping mods (if you want to join existing Mbin magazines (= subreddits) rather than starting new ones). However, I guess that Mbin, on average, is not as hostile and xenophobic towards the rest of the Fediverse as large parts of Lemmy are.

Two, again, there's no iPhone app that works with Mbin. For Android, there's Interstellar. For iOS, there's only the Web interface.

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@Carl Myrland No need to create them. The Fediverse has multiple all-out, full-blown Facebook alternatives readily available already now. Not Facebook clones, but better than Facebook with features that you won't find on Facebook.

And yes, including groups on various levels of public vs private where public groups are open to the whole Fediverse including Mastodon.

And if you're daring enough to try something experimental:
  • Forte (code repository)
    Established in 2024
    Federated with Mastodon since its own creation

All four were created by the same guy, @Mike Macgirvin 🖥️, professional software developer of about half a century, creator of multiple Fediverse protocols and almost a dozen Facebook alternatives in the Fediverse and inventor of nomadic identity.

#Long #LongPost #CWLong #CWLongPost #FediMeta #FediverseMeta #CWFediMeta #CWFediverseMeta #Facebook #FacebookGroups #FacebookAlternative #Friendica #Hubzilla #Streams #(streams) #Forte #Fediverse
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@Flamekebab If you're looking for "Facebook anything in the Fediverse", and you either want it to be easy-peasy, or you want to run it via a phone, or both, try Friendica. It was created in 2010, five and a half years before Mastodon, explicitly as an alternative to Facebook. Not an all-out Facebook clone, but better than Facebook, and still with everything that's actually useful about Facebook. Including groups.

So you do as follows:
  • Register a user account on a Friendica node for the Facebook group. On Friendica, groups are user accounts with specific settings.
  • All those of you who are on Mastodon, and who want to stay on Mastodon, join the group from Mastodon. Attention, though, for starting new threads in a Friendica group from Mastodon requires some steps that aren't engrained in Mastodon's culture.
  • All those of you who are not on Mastodon join Friendica, and so they have something that's close enough to Facebook. They don't necessarily have to be on the same node as the group, but they may. If they have phones, they install RaccoonForFriendica on them.

(Sorry, fellow Hubzilla and (streams) users, but if it has to be quick and easy, I'm not going to tell folks to join something with a complex permission apparatus that doesn't have native phone apps.)

CC: @Elisheva Meira ✡︎ 🌈

#Long #LongPost #CWLong #CWLongPost #FediMeta #FediverseMeta #CWFediMeta #CWFediverseMeta #Facebook #FacebookAlternative #FacebookGroups #Friendica
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Did you know that there's an official Facebook group for fans of my written works? I've been getting into the habit of posting extra tidbits and early announcements there for the past few months as a fun little "bonus" for its members, so if you're interested in such things, be sure to join the party. It's free! 📚🙂👍

My latest entry there answers my most frequently-asked question from new readers: "Where should I start?"

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I've noticed that many posts in #FacebookGroups begin with something like 'sorry if this is against the group rules'. It happens across topic areas and in different communities on #Facebook, but I've never really seen anything equivalent on other platforms or communities.

Is it because people aren't bothering to read group rules (if so, it's strange that they're courteous enough to apologize for it), or is shaming for violating vague rules so prevalent that people have to preempt it?

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@atomicpoet
As someone who does a lot of #Genealogy , I am part of several #FacebookGroups that specialize in various aspects of the subject. I've found some great Genealogy accounts etc here, but my interactions and subject information on #Facebook is far more than I can find here.

Realistically: Each platform appeals to specific groups and interests. I don't know that the architecture of #Mastodon could be as effective as the interest-specific groups on Facebook. But I also see Mastodon as being more appealing for other topics and interests, and its architecture having some very distinct advantages.

You also have the fact that both #Twitter and #Meta offer a comfortable interface to far more #news and #CurrentEvents than is available here on Mastodon.

One large aspect of this issue, is that Mastodon needs to widen the options of #NewsArticles available here, in order to seriously compete with either other platform.